Wednesday, 8 August 2012
Letter To Nigerian Ladies
Letter To Nigerian Ladies
Dear ladies, Firstly, if you are still struggling to find a husband at an old age it's simply because you are looking for a perfect man. Something might be wrong with you. Now, check your propaganda
Magazine tells you that 'All men are liars, cheats and useless, but let’s be honest here, which is more likely? Is it that there’s something wrong with about 70million African men OR there is something wrong with one African Woman? You Ladies certainly will not get into a blissful matrimony if u re always hanging out with your so call girlfriends every night at a beer palour or bar waiting for a guy to buy you a drink & take you home afterwards. Drinking yourself to stupor every Friday & Saturday night does not exactly make you look like a marriage material. You want a man?...invest in a good wardrobe & dress responsibly not like a mad person.
When a man comes to you, smile & be polite, even if he does not fit your mental image of ur kind of man. Ladies, stop coming to relationship with a chip on your shoulder. If you believe all men are bad & all men are Dogs, then it will become a self fulfilling prophesy. No man is perfect! You say you can't marry a blue collar guy like a mechanic or carpenter, Now if a carpenter was good enough to marry Mary mother of the Jesus Christ, why isn't one good enough for you?
Do not focus on where a man is now, but look and see where he has the potentials to be. Wat’s the point of being beaten to a pulp every night by some rich, good looking and non caring man? Do u want a future where you will sit in a traffic in your BMW X6, GUCCI sunglasses covering your swollen eyes and u look out of d window and see a happy couple in a keke napep holding hands and laughing like newly wedded couple even after 12 years of marriage.
Please don’t fake pregnancy or get pregnant to trap him, e no dey work again joor! Ur perfect man is out there, believe, work ƞ pray and you will get him.
--- by Kelvinj:@nairaland.com
Link: http://www.nairaland.com/1012770/anonymous-letter-nigerian-ladies/2#11736577
Tuesday, 31 July 2012
Sunday, 29 July 2012
Fans Damage Eniola Badmus' 2-Month Old N6m Honda Pilot Car
Eniola Badmus with the damaged car
Top Nollywood actress, Eniola Badmus popularly known as 'Gbogbo Bigs Girlz' has alleged that she was mobbed in Lagos yesterday by some of her fans. She also disclosed that her newly bought Honda Pilot car was destroyed by the mob.
The 'plus size' actress, who acted in 'Omo Ghetto' and 'Blackberry Babes', revealed this some hours ago. Eniola also posted a picture of her damaged car by the fans yesterday.
She stated that the incident took place in Ebette Metta area of Lagos. Eniola also disclosed that she might give the option of getting a body guard a thought.
According to her, "[I] never knew I have so much fans. I was mobbed in Ebutte-Metta yesterday. A price to pay for stardom. I think I need body guards."
Eniola Badmus is one of the cross-over actresses that has excelled in both genres of the film industry.
The damaged Honda Pilot car was reportedly acquired by Eniola while she was in Canada two months ago.
link: http://www.nigeriafilms.com/news/18360/27/fans-damage-eniola-badmus-2-month-old-n6m-honda-pi.html
Monday, 23 July 2012
How To Make A Woman Fall In Love With You
How To Make A Woman Fall In Love With You
1. Display maturity
It’s
always said that women mature faster than guys and are often found complaining
about how immature they act. Impress her with the way you deal with situations
and your outlook on the whole. Show her how responsible you are about finances,
or serious you are about your career. And demonstrate your ability to think
clearly and rationally when disagreements crop up or a conflict of interests
presents itself.
TIP:
Women love it when a guy takes interest in their likes, dislikes, interests,
family, childhood and so many other areas. Talking to her about herself is the
best way to make her fall in love. 'Tell Me Honey...2000 Questions for Couples' is a
best-selling book from Amazon that will help you draw out a woman with
questions. This book has 2000 questions across 75 categories including love,
romance, sex and relationships. Let her reveal herself to you, one question at
a time and before you know it, she'll be in love with you! This 'must-have'
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2. Romance
her
Make her
feel good by keeping the romance alive in the relationship. You don’t have to
spend a whole lot of money doing this. Sure, there isn’t a woman alive who
doesn’t adore flowers and gifts, but you can also do things that don’t cost a
lot but can still enhance your relationship. Write her little notes or send her
a mushy card. Call her up just to tell her you’re thinking about her and can’t
wait to see her again. Be attentive and make her feel cherished and truly
special.
3.
Faithful
Don’t ever give her
occasion to doubt you. Let her know that you have eyes only for her and the
rest of the world takes a backseat. Let her sense your commitment to her and
your relationship. Being able to trust someone and truly rely on him is a very
powerful feeling. So many people profess deep feelings and then cheat on their
partners. Don’t just tell her but show her that she can count on you. Women
need to feel secure and once that is established, it takes the relationship to
a higher level.
4. Time
spent with her is precious
Make it
clear that you really treasure the time you spend with her, irrespective of
what you’re doing together. And prove it! For instance, if she suddenly tells
you she’d like to meet you because she’s finishing work early and you had
something else lined up, cancel it for her. That doesn’t mean you cater to her
to the exclusion of everything else, just that you sometimes sacrifice
something you care about to be with her. If she begs you to come see a movie
and you had plans with your buddies, do it for her and let her know subtly that
you did. She will surely reward you! Women also love it if you do some girly
stuff with them like shopping for lingerie, and aren’t afraid of sacrificing your
masculinity in the process. It just makes you more of a man in their eyes!
5.
Compliment her
You don’t
have to go over the top always telling her how good she looks or how gorgeous
her hair is or what a lovely outfit she’s wearing. A compliment has more effect
when it is sincere, well timed and often, out of the blue. While a woman always
loves hearing that she’s looking good, you can’t keep telling her that. It will
lose its charm eventually. A compliment is valued when there is a surprise
element to it. Telling her how witty you find her, how her intelligence turns
you on, appreciating how thoughtful and generous she can be, or her gentle
nature, all these are deeper compliments, which, when paid sincerely, make the
recipient feel ten feet tall.
6. Laughter
Use humor
as your biggest ally. If she enjoys your company and looks forward to seeing
you again, you’re rapidly becoming an addiction, and that’s just what you’re
aiming for. It’s not about making her laugh over your one-liners and finding
you hilarious. It’s more about being on the same wavelength and enjoying the
other’s sense of humor too. Or finding humor in similar situations or having a
favorite serial or sitcom, which you talk about and cracks you up. Finding the
same joke funny, or sharing a smile, draws you closer and makes you feel like
kindred spirits. It’s a great feeling!
7. Learn
what turns her on
And use
it to advantage. Find out just the kind of touch that excites her, how she
loves to be kissed. Don’t ever push her for sex or make her uncomfortable by
coming on too strong. Let her see the effect she has on you, yet keep a strong
rein on your passions if she decides she wants to call a stop to it. Let her
set the pace, and ensure she understands that while your desires for her are
strong, you will respect the limits she sets. Respect her and her body and she
will appreciate you more for it. Women love it when they can see how much they
turn you on and yet find you willing to take it slow for their sake. Also, when
you make love to her, don’t always kiss her or caress her as a lead up to
having sex. Do it just to make her feel special and because you want to convey
that to her, and she will adore you for it.
8. Give
her space
Don’t be
possessive and make her account to you regarding her whereabouts. Let her know
you trust her. Don’t expect her to spend all her free time with you. Let her
have her own life too. Often when in a relationship, people make the mistake of
spending every waking moment that they can manage together, and in the process,
alienate themselves from friends and even lose their identity. Let her be her
own person.
9.
Thoughtful
You
remember little things she told you, and remind her of it at opportune moments.
It may be that she once mentioned she loves having chicken soup when she’s got
a cold, and you land up with some when she’s got the sniffles. Or she’s told
you how she adores a particular entrée at a popular restaurant and the next
time you go there, you order it and surprise her. It makes her feel like you
genuinely listen to her and take the trouble to act on it and make her happy.
10. “I
love you”
And of
course, while showing her should give her the message, there’s
a lot to be said for saying it loud and clear. Tell her how
important she is to you. You might want to think about when you’re first going
to tell her those three words. If it's too early in the relationship, she might
be skeptical that you could feel so deeply so soon. And thereafter, it's not
just choosing the right moment, but making every small moment count. You don’t
have to wait only till you’re kissing her, or in bed. Saying it when it's least
expected makes it all the more precious. She might be telling you something and
the feeling just overwhelms you – tell her at that instant. She won’t mind being
interrupted mid-sentence!
Friday, 13 July 2012
Sunday, 1 July 2012
How to end a relationship that isn’t working
First things first, you need to decide whether the relationship really is over or if what you are going through is just a little bump on the road to true love.
It can be a shock in any dating relationship when you have your first argument or notice a really annoying habit in your partner that you hadn’t seen before. The temptation can be to throw in the towel at the first sign of a problem but the reality is that all relationships take work. Even in the best relationships there will come a time when you need to recognise the differences between you, resolve conflict and face up to the fact that your partner isn’t perfect after all.
But what happens when the rose tinted glasses come off and you realise that you really don’t love (or even like) this person anymore? What if you can no longer see yourself in a long-term relationship with them? What if you can’t be yourself when you are with them? What if you have discovered that they are abusive, unkind, dishonest or unfaithful? In these cases, the time may well have come to end the relationship.
Ending a relationship is never easy. It helps to try to do it as soon as possible after you’ve made the decision, because delaying the inevitable can make things worse, as Sophie discovered.
“I had dated Charlie for three years, we were living together, he had moved cities to be with me and was very much a part of my family. We were very much in love but I had realised that I didn’t want to marry him, so decided I had to end our relationship. It was a few weeks before Christmas and I confided in my mother, who insisted that I had to wait until after Christmas to break up with Charlie as he was joining us on our family Christmas holiday. He has no family where we live, and she thought it would be just ‘too mean’.
Monday, 11 June 2012
JUNE 12: THE BIRTH OF DEMOCRACY?
JUNE 12: THE BIRTH OF NIGERIAN DEMOCRACY...
WITH THE RECENT SPATE OF CORRUPTION OF THE HIGHEST ORDER IN NIGERIA.IS IT WORTH CELEBRATING?
M.K.O
THIS MAN DIED FOR DEMOCRACY TO BE ENTHRONED IN NIGERIA.
HIS DEATH HAS NOT BEEN JUSTIFIED BY OUR CORRUPT POLITICIAN.
HAPPY JUNE 12.
WITH THE RECENT SPATE OF CORRUPTION OF THE HIGHEST ORDER IN NIGERIA.IS IT WORTH CELEBRATING?
M.K.O
THIS MAN DIED FOR DEMOCRACY TO BE ENTHRONED IN NIGERIA.
HIS DEATH HAS NOT BEEN JUSTIFIED BY OUR CORRUPT POLITICIAN.
HAPPY JUNE 12.
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